Dearest Readers,
It's with a very heavy heart that I write this post; after almost 5 years of blogging on GiveThemRoots I have decided to sale the blog. It is not a decision that I've made lightly. My life is heading down a different path and my focuses are elsewhere and because of that you, my readers, are being ignored. It is my hope that I will find the right blogger to buy GTR and that they will post a plethora of fabulous posts that you and your family can benefit from.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank YOU! I truly mean that. I have gotten many emails from my readers over the years and I have loved every single one of them, even the hate mail which my husband and I got a some pretty great laughs from. Many of you have been reading this blog as our family has grown. You've read about pregnancy woes, births, and all of the baby things that follow. Thank you for sharing in our joys. It's incredibly hard to believe that it has been 5 years already!
This is not goodbye, I will occasionally guest post for the blog's new owner so... catch you later!
Much love & gratitude,
Your Root Enthusiast, Dare
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Tuesday, July 9, 2013
Friday, May 3, 2013
Mommy Confession: Lost In The Shuffle
I have a feeling today's Mommy Confession will hit home with a lot of you, especially larger families. I'm here to tell you that you aren't alone in this parenting journey! We tell our boys, "It doesn't matter what happens as long as you try your best.", and this applies to everything in life, most especially parenting! Don't beat yourself. You'll get some things right and some utterly wrong... and that's OK! There are plenty of scholarships and college loans now, you can opt to pay for therapy instead! {wink wink}
Lost in the shuffle... that's what my three year old is. Evan has three older brothers. Two are in first grade, one is in preschool, all three play soccer and one also plays t-ball. His mom is a yoga teacher, a classroom volunteer (x2), a PTA (parent teacher association) chair, a blogger (although not a very frequent one these days), and has a never ending supply of dirty laundry to do! Evan's dad works 50+ hours a week, coaches t-ball, and provides a lot of the end of day routine (homework, bath, and bedtime) after he works all day because Evan's mom is teaching yoga at night. Evan is lost in the shuffle and along for the ride!
Mommy Confession: Lost In The Shuffle
Lost in the shuffle... that's what my three year old is. Evan has three older brothers. Two are in first grade, one is in preschool, all three play soccer and one also plays t-ball. His mom is a yoga teacher, a classroom volunteer (x2), a PTA (parent teacher association) chair, a blogger (although not a very frequent one these days), and has a never ending supply of dirty laundry to do! Evan's dad works 50+ hours a week, coaches t-ball, and provides a lot of the end of day routine (homework, bath, and bedtime) after he works all day because Evan's mom is teaching yoga at night. Evan is lost in the shuffle and along for the ride!
Luckily, Evan is also happy-go-lucky and mostly laid back. He doesn't mind sitting in carpool (for about 2 hours out of every single day between the 2 schools). He doesn't mind playing on the sidelines at soccer in 40 degree weather with 15 mph winds or tossing a baseball with Mom during t-ball practice. He doesn't mind who tucks him in bed at night or dries him off after his bath. He doesn't mind getting that extra five minutes of snuggle time in Mommy's lap even though she's folding clothes around him. He doesn't mind quietly coloring at the table while his older brothers do homework. And he surely doesn't mind spending time with Grandma while Mommy is volunteering at the schools. In fact, he seems to love most of things (maybe not carpool) and is happy anytime he is "hanging" with his big brothers!
But Mommy minds. Mommy minds that she isn't always home to kiss him goodnight or snuggle him fresh out of the bath. Mommy minds that most of his naps are in a car during carpool. Mommy minds that his cheeks are rosy from the cold and his fingers are icy cold while he plays on the sidelines at soccer. Mommy minds that she's thinking about the pile of laundry to fold when he's in her lap. Mommy minds that they miss a lot of library storytimes, playdates with "his" friends, and other fun things she did with his older brothers. Mommy minds all of that!
Sometimes I wonder if we're getting it right with him. His early childhood has been so very different than his older brothers. I wonder if this is going to effect his personality. I wonder a lot of things but mostly I wish we had an open schedule that could be filled with playdates, library storytimes, fun lunch dates with Daddy and uninterrupted naps. Don't get me wrong, the child isn't neglected; we read plenty of books just not at storytime, he plays outside every single day and he gets a lot of snuggles that don't involve thoughts of laundry but it's just So. Very. Different. than age three was for his brothers. I feel like he's getting ripped off but the almost constant smile on his face give me hope that we're doing OK.
You would think by the fourth kid we'd have this parenting things down to an art! We already did this age three other times, except we didn't. We didn't have "mix-aged" siblings going in 20 different directions. And just when you think you know what you're doing, the parenting game changes. Ain't that some sh....
How do you juggle your older children's activities while making sure your younger children get the attention, love, and fun experiences that your older children got at that age?
How do you juggle your older children's activities while making sure your younger children get the attention, love, and fun experiences that your older children got at that age?
Labels:
Child Advice,
Happiness,
Mommy Confession
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Free Shutterfly Photo Mother's Day Card
Look what I made on Shutterfly today! You can make one too and if you use the code: CARDFORU then you can make one for FREE. Just pay .99 shipping! Now that's the best $1 card you'll ever buy!
Free Shutterfly Photo Mother's Day Card
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Guest Post: Battling Mesothelioma: I'm Lucky to be Alive
Today's guest post is a very special one,
Heather Von St James is a 43-year-old wife and mother. Upon her diagnosis of mesothelioma, she vowed to be a source of hope for other patients who found themselves with the same diagnosis. Now, over 6 years later, her story has been helping people all over the globe. She continues her advocacy and awareness work by blogging, speaking and sharing her message of hope and healing with others. Check out her story at the Mesothelioma Cancer Alliance Blog. Read Heather's story of survival and hope below.
Carrying a child is one of the most joyous times in a woman's life. My pregnancy was very normal and on August 4th, 2005, I gave birth to a baby girl via C-section, who I named Lily. As I counted her fingers and toes, I looked around at my family, or "village" as I liked to call them. My husband, his family, my parents, and close friends were all there to meet Lily. I was excited, it all seemed so wonderful, and there was so much to look forward to.
I didn't want to, but I had to go back to work when Lily was a month old. I just didn't feel right; I was constantly tired and often having trouble breathing. I was concerned and schedule a doctor's appointment. When at the doctor's, several tests were done; the results would forever change my life.
I was diagnosed with malignant pleural mesothelioma. It was like a punch in the stomach. If I didn't start treatment immediately, I would only have 15 months to live. I had a three-and-a-half month child and my husband; I couldn't stand the thought of them having to live without me. I didn't understand how something like cancer could happen to me. It turns out that 30 years ago when I was just a kid, I had been exposed to asbestos and it had disturbed the lining of my lungs and was now starting to really set in.
We knew that I couldn't wait to start treatment. My parents in South Dakota took Lily while my husband and I traveled to Boston for treatments from the best mesothelioma doctor we could find. On February 2nd, 2006, I underwent a procedure called an extrapleural pneumonectomy in which my affected lung and surrounding tissue was removed. My recovery took 18 days. After I recovered, I had to continue radiation and chemotherapy a few months.
When I was going through treatment and then recovery, it amazed me at how much my village grew. While my husband and I were in Boston, we met so many families that were also dealing with mesothelioma. In South Dakota, there were so many family members and friends that helped my parents take care of Lily. I was grateful and astonished at how much my village had grown.
Today, being a mother is a 24-hour job. While it's stressful, it's also wonderful. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world and I'm so grateful that I have the opportunity to raise my daughter. Today, I'm cancer-free. My family and daughter were the driving force behind me when I was fighting for my life against cancer.
I will forever be grateful for the support of so many people. My fight with mesothelioma was a tough one, but I'm fortunate to be alive and well. My life wouldn't be the same without my family members and village.
Labels:
advocacy,
Awareness,
cancer,
Guest Posts
Monday, April 29, 2013
How to Make Healthy Eating Fun for Kids
One of the most frequent questions I get from readers and other parents is "How do you get your kids to eat so many different healthy foods?" . Lucky for us Bridget Sandorford, culinary writer and today's guest blogger, has created a wonderful resource for you to encourage your child to eat healthy foods. Take it away, Bridget....
Every
parent knows how difficult it can be to get kids to eat their peas
and carrots -- or any other food that looks remotely like a vegetable
or remotely healthy. Dinner time often turns into a tableside battle,
with parents cajoling, coercing, or threatening in order to get their
kids to eat the foods that are so important to their health and
development.
While
there will never be a magic bullet for getting kids to eat a healthy
diet, there are a few tricks that can help you to avoid the battles
and to get your kids to eat more nutritious foods. One of those
tricks is to make healthy eating fun. Here are a few ideas for how to
make healthy eating fun for kids:
Use
Veggies in Their Favorite Dishes
Kids
aren't likely to ever get excited about a plateful of plain Brussels
sprouts. However, if you start with some of their favorite foods,
you can slip in some healthy veggies and have them feeling excited
about what they're about to eat. Add veggies to dishes like pizza and
tacos, and add fresh fruits to desserts and toast. Your kids will get
the nutrients they need and the taste they want.
Create
Food Art
Most of
the time, veggies just look boring. You can make healthy foods fun by
creating food art. Make funny faces out of veggies on sandwich bread
or fruit on waffles. Use fruits to create a "cake." Use
pieces of cauliflower and some black olives to create a plate full of
"sheep." Be creative and see what you can come up with!
When all else fails, browse Pinterest for some fun ideas.
Grow
a Garden Together
Kids are
more likely to get excited about healthy foods when they are involved
in the process of growing them. Start a small garden and involve your
children in managing it. Allow them to pick out a crop or two to
grow. Put them in charge of small sections of the garden. Let them
take care of certain tasks, such as planting seeds or weeding. The
more invested children feel in growing the food, the more excited
they will feel about eating it when it's ready to harvest.
Cook
Together
When
kids are given some autonomy, they will more excited about whatever
it is they are doing. You can get them more excited about eating
healthy foods by inviting them into the kitchen to help you cook
healthy foods. Assign age-appropriate tasks, such as rinsing veggies,
breaking off stems, shelling peas, filling bowls with water, getting
out pots and pans, and so on. The more you can involve kids, the more
excited they will be about the resulting meal -- and the more pride
they will feel in eating it.
Play
Games about Healthy Eating
There
are many online games that you can play with your kids to teach them
about healthy eating and make them more excited about doing it. Try
out Nourish Interactive (http://www.nourishinteractive.com/kids) for
some ideas. When kids are done playing games, they will want to try
out the foods they have learned about. Try to follow up with fun
dishes that use ingredients they have just learned about.
Getting
kids to eat healthy has been a struggle for parents across the ages.
While you may never inspire a complete change of heart, you can get
kids a little more excited about filling up on their fruits and
veggies -- or at least giving them a fighting chance.
What
tricks do you use to get your kids to eat more healthy foods? Share
your tips in the comments!
About
the Author:
Bridget
Sandorford is a freelance food and culinary writer, where recently
she’s been researching culinary
schools in Cincinnati.
In her spare time, she enjoys biking, painting and working on her
first cookbook.
Labels:
Child Advice,
child health,
Guest Posts,
Healthy Eating
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